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    August 11

    'I Hate Her So Much' 'Why?' 'My Friend Said She's A Slut'

    Teenage girls are possiblt the most fickle, bitchy creatures on the planet.
    But so what else is new.
     
    Anyway.
     
    Sitting through photography, I had the enlightening experience of listening to some of the other girls gossiping about this and that. And as they talked, I became aware of just how many people they supposedly 'hate'. They hate this girl because she's dating someone's ex. They hate this girl because she's a slut. They hate this girl because she dreses like a tryhard. They hate this girl because she's apparently pregnant. (I mean lyk, omg, she has the biggest pot belly, and she was touching it at recess. Yeah kids, she's OBVIOUSLY preggers).
     
    I mentioned that they seem to hate a lot of people, and was then told that 'Oh, it's just because you don't hate anyone. You're way too nice'
     
    Now it could just be me, but I find it amazing how easily these girls will form an opinion of someone they barely know. They hear or see something, and all of a sudden they 'hate' this girl.
     
    As far as I know, I'm not terribly 'nice'. Civil, yes. I try, anyway. And as far as I know, I don't actually 'hate' anyone. Dislike intensely, naturally, but not 'hate'. Perhaps these kids just don't understand the severity of words like that. It's a bit like two day old couples going 'I LOVE you' 'No. I LOVE you'.
     
    Words like hate and love aren't ones to throw around, and I just found it interesting that 15/16 year old girls seem to hate everyone. It's not healthy.
     
    I think I've lost my point, but you get the idea.
     
    Have fun kids.

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    and as soon as you declare you 'hate' someone there is no going back from threre right?
     
    bad way of just segregating who you interact with.sad.hope they grown up fast..
     
    Aug. 13
    Stuartwrote:
    Again, another great piece - another insightful comment on a section of culture I don't get to see.
     
    It seems that nothing changes, and this whole "hate" thing at the microcosmic level of schools translates into a macrocosmic level - i.e. religion, racial and so on...
     
    Are you sure you're not in training to work in social commentary, and the whole brocolli thing is just a ruse?
     
    Maybe I'm not getting enough fizzy red drinks into me.
    Aug. 11
    Jessiewrote:
    You? Nice? You're right, they arent good at forming opinions.
    Aug. 11

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